Bonding-Love (the bonding side of love) Yesod-Chesed in Hebrew
In love there are moments of bonding and connecting with the one's we love, and these moments comes to us in un expected ways, because the character of love has the ability to discern how to seize the moment of bonding and connecting.
Everything you are good at doing must also become something that you are willing to give up, to surrender and to offer as a sacrifice in the time when the love of God for others requires it.
Next; go to ask yourself above