Humble-Love (the humble side of love) Hod-Chesed in Hebrew
Love is always humble and devoted in it's service to others. It's like making up a plan of forgiving someone that you love, even before he or she does anything wrong to offend you.
The memory of a good experience in life, will bring back the desire into someone's life, so that someone will be willing to repeat and to relive that experience again. But the remembrance of a bad experience in someone's mind, will restrain his feelings, increase his hate and make someone to put up rules of restrictions, so that he may not return back to that bad experience, Yet when the love of God commands us to give ourselves even in situations where it feels like some people do not deserve our love.
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