Love-Love (the love side of love) Chesed-Chesed in Hebrew
Without love and the attributes of love, the qualities and good morals of life, becomes hard to extend from one generation to another.
When ever you expose yourself to the knowledge (the experience, the learning, the commitment, the education, the spending of your money) for something you want to get, then all over sudden your emotions (feelings) begins to fall in love with that something.
If you want to develop love for someone, you must also be willing to submit, to learn, to give the things you value, to listen and to respect the one you love.
Next; go to ask yourself above