Ask yourself
How will I feel or act if I find out things that irritate me about the person that am bonding with? Will I still be willing to Bond (Connect) with them or will that be an excuse for me to stop having a relationship with them?
Exercise for the day
Don't let evil report (gossip, false criticism) and even true facts change How you feel about some one that you are Bonding with.
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