Ask yourself
Is it much easier for me to fight (to argue, to complain, to condemn, and to act mean) against those who are hindering me from getting what I want? Or am I also able to act in Humility (to submit, to be willing to listen, to learn and obey) for the sake of achieving my goals?
Exercise for the day
In the situations where you feel challenged to fight and compete so that you may prove your point, pray to God that He may give you more grace to able to handle such situations with Humility (willing to Listen, learn, submit and obey).
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